Today was one of those days where I was missing my grandpa. When you lose a loved one the grief never fully goes away, but as time passes some days are better than others. Today I was missing him very much and felt quite sad.
My grandfather was such a great person and touched the lives of many. Growing up I remember knowing I always had the support of my grandfather. Whether it was my 8th grade graduation, student of the month, spring choir, or teacher’s award my grandpa always, always made it. I remember looking into a crowd and seeing my grandpa even if no one else came he always managed to make it. I didn’t have the greatest relationship with my father given he was very inconsistent in his presence, but as I got other it didn’t bother me much because I viewed my grandfather as my father. He was the one person, no matter what the situation was, I could depend on.
When I moved to live with my grandparents I was behind in reading and math. Every day after school my grandfather would sit with me at the dining room table and patiently would go over my math homework with me. He bought additional math workbooks and taught me math. My grades significantly increased the following semester. I will never forget this. This is love.
My grandfather wasn’t afraid to use the word love. He always told me he loved me, he always told his loved ones he loved them and this showed through his actions. Whenever I would ride with him somewhere he often would tell me the struggle he went through to finish medical school as a Jamaican immigrant. Even though I heard the story many times, I would still act enthusiastic when hearing it because I knew he enjoyed telling it. He valued education because of his struggle. “First attend to your studies” he would say. I would have to be the one to tell him school is not more important than him. I will always love my grandpa because of the unconditional love he showed me. I am thankful for the values he instilled in me, integrity, dependability, humility, perseverance, and love. He will always be special to me and although he is no longer with me in life, I will forever cherish the memories he has left me. I love you always and forever grandpa!❤️❤️🕊️ RIH
